Connection and family

 Tip 3: build connection with extended family 

I am happy when I see my children bond with their cousins.

I am happy when I have meaningful conversation with my brother and nieces. 

I realised that being with my family make me happy. I left home since 18, and each time I visit my home country, I feel more like a visitor. 

I feel supported when I am with my family. 


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